Happy Easter Holidays!

This is just to wish you all a very Happy Easter. Try as much as possible to share this special time with family and friends and most importantly, remember we are celebrating the resurrection of Christ.

You can also use this period to re-strategize and try to revive every venture you let die in your hands, all the brilliant ideas you let fade away.
Come back from this Holiday season a better person with new ideas and a fresh, strong will to make those ideas a success!

Enjoy the Holidays!!!

I'm Married...What next?

I really love weddings! The make-up, the flowers, the pretty ladies, the excitement in the air, the beautiful wedding gowns, the tightness in your tummy...God! That tightness, you are just too excited! You don’t have to sneak around anymore, you can explore your fantasies, and you are free at last. It’s a great feeling!

The guests go home, the food is finished, the music fades, the decoration starts getting pulled down and you are in your hotel room with your spouse, looking into each other’s eyes, smiling and most likely thinking... So what next?

This is actually a question you should have answered long ago before the wedding, but most people are too carried away with the euphoria of the wedding that they forget that it’s just a wedding and the most important thing is the marriage.

Below is a conversation between a newly married and unmarried colleague of mine in the canteen:

This is for you!

If you’ve ever lost someone…this is for you!

If you have an empty space in your heart because someone in your life just got up and left…this is for you!

If you woke up one morning, everything seemed normal up until you got that phonecall, they said someone you love just passed. They left you wondering, passed to where? Passed through where? Who came and took them across? All the weird thoughts running through your mind because your mind is too afraid to admit that Death has taken away someone you love…Then this is for you!

Deal with it from the centre!

I once read a book by Stephen covey, it talked about the circles of concern, influence and control. In a nutshell, circumstances that bother you are in your circle of concern but the ones you can control are only those in your circle of influence and control. We all know there are some things, we as individuals, cannot control. For instance, as a naija babe now, I cannot just wake up and say I’m tired of this electricity problem, I don’t want to shout UP NEPA no more, I will build the refineries and solve this problem once and for all, because I love my country and this has got to stop! Well, e fit happen for dream sha, but in real terms, when I wake up, I’ll have to deal with all the sweat from building the refineries in my dream, without electricity in my room to service the fan/air conditioner while I was “sleep-working”.

Make it a Lifestyle!

Lol! So I saw the picture above on a friend’s bbm display picture and I laughed hard. A friend of mine after laughing hard said "Ah, ooto ni, we have real enemies on this side of the world, you have to usher the New Year in with real prayers"(imagine this saying with a yoruba accent) 

So this period of the year, everybody in Nigeria is fasting, or pretending to be fasting, or attempting to fast. Whichever category you are in, the truth is, most Christians are more spiritually aware this time of the year.

Me sef, I dey included oh, but I was just wondering...why can’t we be on this spiritual level all through the year? Does it have to be a New Year episode only?

MERRY CHRISTAMS AND A PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR!!!!

Has anyone of you had that brief moment of "the year is gone already?"

Well, if you have not had it yet, you probably will...soon!

I was thinking back yesterday and I couldn’t believe how much has happened this year. It seemed like the year was so short but so many things have happened. Both the good and not so good, but all in all, it has been a good year.

The Simple Things...

Today I opened my system, stared at it for a long while and asked myself…Why I have not written in a while. And what do I even want to write about?

You see, sometimes life can get to you in so many ways that you don’t even have the time to do the simple things you love. It then got me thinking, I’m probably not the only one in this situation right now

We as humans get caught up doing so many things, if only we could take out time to breathe, we will realize that those things that take your time aren’t even so important. Most often than not, they are things we can live without, things that if we stop doing, we would still live very normal lives